Psalm
127:3-5, "Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is
his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are the children of
the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be
ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate."
This morning, my mind has been stirred due to a conversation with a vendor here
at work. As we chatted about different things, the conversation turned towards
the present crisis in this country in many different areas. He mentioned that
with the downturn on everything it was getting harder and harder to cement any
type of "legacy" to our labour here in the earth. When I pressed the matter a
little, he basically said that the ever-changing world and forgetfulness of
yesterday to chase after the fleeting dreams of tomorrow were making it
difficult to do anything of lasting value that anyone will ever remember. Of
course, I did not travel down the path of pride, self-indulgence, and conceited
notions with him (bad for business relations), but the statement was full of
man's natural self-glory about self-worth. Our thoughts of legacy are, at least
by implication, steeped in our own quest of self rather than others. It is
interesting that the Bible never uses the term "legacy" once, but the subject of
a heritage comes up over and over again. One of the things that stirred my mind
was his statement, "About the only way to have a legacy anymore is to have
children." My mind immediately went to this passage, for our children should not
be viewed as a legacy to us, but rather as a heritage from the LORD.
The word heritage has implications of an inheritance, a portion, a lot, or
parcel. Basically, the heritage is not the whole of the source, but it is the
part of the whole under consideration. When the children of Israel were given
Canaan's Land as a heritage, that was their portion in the natural world.
(Exodus 6:8) When ministers of the gospel tend to the Lord's heritage in His
church, we are focusing on the portion of the human race that seeks after God
according to His precepts and dictates. (I Peter 5:3) Therefore, our children
should not be viewed as some legacy to our memory or a way of cementing our mark
on the world, but rather, they should be viewed as our portion from the Lord as
a part of our reward here. Children are a great blessing from God that our
family has been increased, our joys doubled, and our burdens shared. The
Biblical model of a family unit is the most simple yet most solid unit known to
man. Due to the autonomous nature of the Biblical family unit there are figures
of authority (father and mother) with clear household guidelines for the
well-being of all the family.
This heritage that we have, I believe, mirrors the heritage that God has. When
we look at all the natural creation around us, we understand that the day is
coming when the Lord will burn it all up. (II Peter 3) When He comes again the
second time without sin unto salvation, the elements will all melt with a
fervent heat and be dissolved in a moment in the twinkling of an eye. So, what
is the Lord's portion in all of this? The Lord's portion is His people, and
Jacob is a representative (or figure) of the lot of God's inheritance.
(Deuteronomy 32:7-10) As all that we see is fleeting and quickly passing away,
there is something in this old world that will live on forever with the Lord;
His people, without the loss of one, will inhabit the glory world with Him.
The Psalmist compares children to arrows in the hand of a mighty man, with his
quiver full of them. Now, I realize that some have taken this text and twisted
it to regulate families to some non-Biblical code of family reproduction. Some
groups are actually in the "more children more spiritual" business, in that the
number of children one has is an indicator of spirituality. Such notions make me
wonder if they have ever read of Abraham, who God blessed above measure with
only one child of his old age with Sarah his wife. Truly, the lone
representative Isaac did not damper the spiritual fellowship Abraham had with
God, but rather, Isaac's single presence cemented God's promise to him. When it
speaks of a "full quiver" in regards to children, it should be a simple
inference to understand that some quivers are larger than others. I would much
rather see a family that had a few children and were able to care for them than
to see a large family that had more children than they could care for. One is a
small unit of reasonableness, while the other is a large unit of foolishness.
However, if families can afford to have large numbers and desire to, that is
fine as well. It should not be the preacher or church's job to tell families
when and how many to have. As everyone in my family and my wife's family can
attest, one of my favourite expressions for these topics is, "That is nobody's
business but my wife's and mine."
But let us press the matter a little further with God and His heritage. We
understand that a happy man has a full quiver. I have seen those that were
physically unable to have more children (or any children) and truly desired to.
They were truly saddened at the condition of desiring children but no ability. I
have seen others that decided not to have any, and when it was too late wished
they had. In both cases, sorrow is the result, but I have met countless
multitudes that have "filled their quiver" so to speak and were truly happy with
their heritage from God. Just give them a crack of an opportunity and they will
tell you all about their children and how thankful they are for them. This is
the thought that the Psalmist is driving at. He is not seeking to speak of a
particular number, but rather he is speaking about a full state of happiness.
Since a happy man has a full quiver, consider our Lord and His children. Should
we believe that God desires all of mankind to be His children and live with Him
in glory, there is only one way that He will be happy. If His quiver cannot be
full without all of Adam's race, then it will take all of Adam's race to make
Him happy. Yet, we find that God is not sorrowful about the eventual inhabitants
of heaven. He will not have a less than full quiver when it is all said and
done. For years I had never seen eternal security in this text, but for God to
be happy with His portion of people, that quiver must be full of His children.
There will not end up being one too many to fit, nor will there be room for
another one that "did not quite make it." The Scriptures that speak of heaven
never speak of discordant themes in God's throne room. In that great and
blissful scene, there will be nothing to offend nor tears to be shed. There will
be no need of crying, for all the causes of tears will be gone forever.
Consider a family that has lost a child whether in an untimely death or
complications of pregnancy. The family mourns over the loss of the child and
wonders at all the "potentials" that could have been for their family and that
child's life. I have seen some families mourn over the "what ifs" for years.
Some never did get over the loss. Some sought other means (such as substances)
rather than the Lord to dull the pain and despondency. Such a scene of loss and
mourning will be completely absent from the "reunion" of God's family on the
morning of the resurrection. As we will be completely overwhelmed and partakers
of complete joy, happiness, charity, and peace, we will then know Him as He
knows us. (I Corinthians 13:12) As He knows us (His family) so will we know Him,
and by implication, each other. Since we will not have the pain of loss or
sorrow, we understand that neither does God have the pain of loss or sorrow.
Rather, all are united together in complete peace and happiness.
Therefore, God will not have 99% of His quiver filled with His children, but all
those for which He loves, foreknew, predestinated, called, justified, and will
one day glorify will be there with a 800 full quiver. Contrasting again with
our families, our children are our portion here. As we are His portion, so are
our children our portion. God has no need to concern Himself with making a
legacy unto His memory, but He has great care and concern over the His portion
of people that He watches over like that mother eagle to her nest. His eye is
upon us, and His wings overshadow us. At times, His wings bear us up above the
trials and tribulations to feast and soar with Him for a while. May our thoughts
to our little ones be the same. May we watch over them, overshadow them, and
bear them up when necessary. May we thank Him for our heritage of children,
thank Him even more for feeling to be a part of His heritage of people, and not
seek our own self-worth in striving for our legacy here.
In Hope,
Bro Philip |