Mark 6:31,
"And he said unto them, Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a
while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as
to eat."
This morning, we attempt writing upon a subject we have never written about
before. Looking at the world around us, entertainment abounds, and most of it is
foolish at best and ungodly at worst. A question that I as a minister get asked
more and more often is, "Is there Biblically authorized entertainment that I can
participate in without violating my walk and profession to Christ? If so, what
is it?" Now, these people are not asking about church-sponsored activities and
events. None of those would be authorized or condoned by Scriptural record, but
on an individual level, what constitutes our "down time" or entertainment on a
purely natural level? Does anything? As the world becomes more and more
entertainment minded, I feel confident that I and many other ministers will have
to field these types of questions more and more.
Undoubtedly, Scripture declares that we should love the Lord with every fiber of
our being. (Luke 10:27) So, with such a clear principle, some would conclude -
and some have - that entertainment is inherently bad as it detracts from that.
As we should magnify the Lord with our body and spirit, some might think no room
was left for entertainment of any sort nor of leisure time that was not immersed
in the active, devoted service to Christ Jesus the Lord. While we should be
found engaged in the clear commandments above, the Scriptures do bear out that
times are necessary in this world for things of a nonspiritual nature.
Before we launch into the broad waters of what might be considered good
entertainment or not, let us consider the difference between something being
"unspiritual" or "nonspiritual." We might also label the contrasting terms
"carnal" or "natural." When looking at the term "unspiritual" which would equate
to something being "carnal," we see something that is opposed to spirituality
and is its enemy. Since the carnal mind is God's enemy (Romans 8:7), unspiritual
activity would be entertainment or otherwise that is contrary to spiritual
things and dampers them in our lives. On the other hand something that is "nonspiritual"
or maybe simply "natural" is something that does not actively destroy
spirituality but simply lacks it. Rather than being spiritual things' enemy, it
is simply neutral.
Now, having laid out those two terms, one might say, "What was the point of
that?" The point is simply this: many things in life are done that have no
spiritual significance that do not actively destroy spirituality in our lives.
For example, should I take my children to the park and spend time with them
sliding down slides, etc. there is absolutely nothing spiritual in that
activity. Truly, my love for my children has roots in spiritual things, but the
activity itself does not actively promote spirituality. It is simply a natural
pleasure. Does this mean that it dampers my spiritual thinking? It could should
I be excessive in the activity, but the activity itself does not deter my
spiritual deportment.
In our study verse above, we read about the word "leisure" with the thought that
the disciples did not have it on this occasion. Our verse above gives insight
into how we should view leisure. The word leisure simply means to have a
convenient time. They did not have enough convenient time to even eat on this
occasion. During their service to God, they could not even find a moment to eat
and simply relax in a natural way. This brings us to a Biblical point that
eating food bears no spiritual significance. Paul laboured to make such a point
when dealing with Christian liberty in Romans 14. Are we any more or less
spiritual depending on our diet or lack thereof? Not according to Paul. It is a
natural activity that - inherently speaking - is simply nonspiritual.
These disciples were so engrossed in the service of God with so many others on
this occasion that they could not even eat. No leisure for a meal. This should
show us that leisure, entertainment, and the like always takes a back seat when
the Master bids us. If we are engaged in God's house, food is secondary. All
things else are secondary. Now, the verse does show the Master's understanding
that rest is necessary. Therefore, while He does bid us come and labour with
Him, He is also gracious to bid us rest a while as well. Labouring spiritually
is taxing upon the natural faculties, and He understands that we need leisure
from time to time. Notice though that the service was first; the rest was
second.
So, the first principle about this leisure is that God's work still comes first.
Christ declared that His righteousness, His kingdom, etc. should always come
first (and thereby most important) in our lives. (Matthew 6:33-34) What about
food? He promises that should His service come first and more important in our
lives, natural blessings, such as food, would be added as well. When Christ and
His disciples walked, He did not preach all day every day for 3.5 years. They
would naturally rest, naturally eat, naturally sleep, etc. None of these things
bore spiritual significance, but were simply natural activities of a non-carnal
nature.
Understanding that His service is first, let us seek some ground to discover
what the Bible says about leisure or having convenient time to participate in
natural things. Eating has been covered as one of those things. What about a
husband and wife's activities together? Certainly, my love for my wife should be
rooted in the love of Christ and understanding how to treat her, with the
example of Christ's love to His bride. Do all of our actions bear spiritual
significance? No they do not. Isaac was found sporting with his wife Rebekah.
(Genesis 26:8) That word "sporting" means to laugh, play about, or even mock in
a kidding way. What Isaac did with his wife was share time that just the two of
them could enjoy with each other - nonspiritual in nature - that showed their
enjoyment of one another's company. So should it be with the husband and wife
today.
Paul laboured to show that marriages have things other than just simply vows and
service to God. (I Corinthians 7) During his lengthy discourse on that subject
to the Corinthians, he plainly states that a man's service to God will suffer
(time-wise) as he will HAVE to make time for his wife. While his wife is
definitely secondary with the Lord first and foremost, he does have to make time
to please his wife, spend time with her, and share moments of laughter, sport,
etc. with her. The reason that it is necessary is that God knows that our
natural relationships need that. Paul understood such, and declared the
necessity of husbands and wives pleasing one another with time (leisure) and
entertainment.
So also does the family of a man require time devoted to them. As we stated
earlier, we love our wife and children based on the love of Christ for and to
us. What we do with them and for them should extend beyond natural affection and
into the realm of self-sacrificing and abiding love. However, with that
well-spring of love to them, we will certainly have affections for them that
necessarily should be met. Could I pray and meditate more without doing things
with my children? Absolutely. Could I find more time to study without a wife?
Definitely. However, they should not be looked upon as detriments to our
service, nor their requests for time met as deterrents to our walk. Rather, we
should delight to spend time with them, and pray that God would sweeten our time
with them and abundantly enrich our time with Him.
Inevitably, someone now says, "But preacher, you have not listed acceptable
nonspiritual activities against unacceptable unspiritual activities." No I have
not, for the list could be lengthy and endless. However, Paul stated toward the
end of a passage about liberty of action to do all that we do for the glory of
God. (I Corinthians 10:31) He specifically had eating under consideration. Do we
eat or not? That is unimportant when compared to the why. Why do it or not do
it? For the glory of God. So, are we back to decrying against all leisure and
entertainment? No we are not. Simply put, we are summing the matter with this
thought.
If leisure time is secondary to God's service of a spiritual design, spiritual
service should be done to the glory of God. However, knowing that we have
natural needs that must be serviced, that should be done to the glory of God.
Perhaps we are in a season where we must put family or even food aside to
worship God and actively walk with Him in sweet fellowship. If that is the
proper course at the convenient time, we should do it to the glory of God.
Perhaps our family needs attention, the children need some playtime, the wife
needs some quality time, our bodies need rest, food, or relaxation time.
Whatever the natural need might be, service it to the glory of God. How? Do it
firstly because He says He is pleased when we live as families in such a way. Do
it secondarily as it will strengthen our frame for future efforts of service to
Him. No one is of much good to God's kingdom as a "spiritual burn-out." One of
the fastest ways to reach that point is to deny the benefit and Biblical aspects
of good leisure and recreation. It is never the first course, nor is it the
biggest portion, but giving it its due place, we will experience more energy and
efficiency for our times of spiritual service to God.
In Hope,
Bro Philip
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