"Life's Good Days: How to Find Them"
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Peter 3:10-11, "For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain
his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: Let him eschew
evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it."
This
morning, we see morality being stripped from public consciousness, families
crumbling, and many other things that can - and do - raise alarms and concerns
regularly. Too often in the last several years, I have seen and heard well
meaning people - including church members - getting too despondent over the
state of affairs. When concern turns to despair, it indicates that faith is
beginning to wane. Our faith is one of the strongest weapons we have to
honorably fulfill our charge here in this life, and we should not allow the tide
of the day's battle determine how well we wield our weapons. Even in the midst
of dark days and crumbling values, we can have more than life (existence). We
can have living (enjoyment) as we faithfully go through our courses with the
light of His glorious countenance.
Peter here has been building to a point that he is still not to in our study
verses. The centerpiece of this epistle (both on the page and in thought) comes
in verse 15 about answering the question of our hope and peace. Everything from
our position, inheritance, example in Christ, and then virtuous Godly living
that he writes about prior to that builds to the conclusion that we should be
ready to speak about who we are, how we got there, and what we are determined to
do in life as a result of being there. Whether it is being a good church
member, husband, wife, son, daughter, friend, etc. we should live a life that
shows our hope and be ready to talk about it. But what about the verses before
us? What is Peter's point?
Peter starts our study verses with two qualifications of a desired state: loving
life and seeing good days. All the commands that flow out from it are
exhortations to achieve the two qualifying marks of this desired state. No one
in their right mind living today would want something other than good days in
their life. Yet, so many times we find ourselves wanting something other than
our current position. Some of this is due to being such dissatisfied creatures,
but much of it stems from not putting forth the right kind of effort to achieve
it. For example, I know of some that have not enjoyed their church experience
for a long time, yet they repeatedly fail to read their Bibles or pray for the
church and her services. The best way to enjoy church more while we are there
is to prepare more for it before we get there. The best way to enjoy life after
God's way is to prepare our hearts to seek Him in thought, word, and deed.
Notice the progression of these exhortations. The first area of ground begins
with the tongue, and it ends with full life devotion. Human beings have a bad
habit of talking about things that should really just be left alone. Peter
exhorts us to keep our tongues in check that we do not allow evil to spill out
of them. In conjunction with that, what we talk about should also be free from
dishonesty. These two exhortations bespeak of us saying good things for the
right reasons. Someone can speak the truth but do so with guile. They can be
dishonest when portraying true things, and Peter commands us to not only refrain
from evil things but also speak without deceit.
After the exhortation to the conduct of our mouth, Peter then moves into our
"doing." Our actions should mirror our tongue, and according to James, our body
will move where our tongues go like a bit in a horse's mouth or a rudder on a
ship. (James 3:1-5) When the words fall in check as they should, the actions
proceeding forth will follow in similar fashion. In our doing, there is finally
some "seeking" that is commanded. We can become so disoriented at times that we
do, do, do without a clear goal or directive in mind. Peter simply states the
directive as seeking peace. When that is our heart's desire and direction, good
days can and will be found.
One
of the things that I marvel at from time to time is Scripture's clear and plain
direction coupled with our failure to follow it as though it were some grand,
complicated thing. People will rationalize not reading the Bible because it is
too hard to understand. They will justify not attending church as they do not
have enough time or other things came up. In these and other examples that can
be cited, they feel justified in their course, and then they seem confused when
things go awry leaving them downcast and downtrodden. Scripture - as in these
verses - clearly states that to love life and see good days, we need to be
speaking, doing, and seeking after this manner.
The
Bible is replete with examples of those who saw good days in the midst of the
storms of life and were able to enjoy themselves. Elijah enjoyed the food of
God daily and then the company of a widow and her son with perpetual care by
God's providence during a 3.5 year famine. Abraham rejoiced to see Christ even
on a day that he was called to make the ultimate parent's sacrifice of his son
Isaac upon the altar. Moses went back to enemy territory as a known
criminal without fear: knowing that God was with him and would bless his
efforts. No matter what is occurring in our lives, we can love our life and
enjoy good days with the Lord while engaged as Peter has thus commanded.
These days are not dependent on health, weather, money, government, or any other
natural factor. These days - to be good - depend only on the felt presence of
the Almighty in our lives. Though He never leaves us, fulfilling these commands
garners His attention and felt presence. Sometimes I consider my own life's
course to this point and gravely think of how inept and unprepared I am for
battle. Our lives are so easy - relatively speaking - compared to those that
have lived in generations past. Yet, our complaints mount to the skies, and we
murmur so frequently about things that should be no more than passing thoughts
before us.
Though not that old, I have learned that if I want to enjoy life more,
complaining less helps. Thanking God helps even more, and remembering what I am
through Him and will be with Him one day is tremendous. Heaven will be the best
unending day, but glorious and good days can be ours to enjoy right now. May we
help one another find these good days and enjoy life together. To do so, we
must put away the things that are evil, first in our mouths and finally with our
actions and desires. Peter's words for this course are "eschew" and "ensue."
These words do not allow any wiggle room for self justification and
rationalization of our decorum. Eschew means to completely avoid, while ensue
means to completely follow. Evil is not something that can be played with and
eschew it, while peace is not something that can be found while halfway looking
for it. To love life, we must wholeheartedly follow after and pursue with
fervency those things which make for good days here in this life. In other
words, we find contentment in Him no matter the season or place or changes of
life.
In
Hope,
Bro
Philip
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